Love Signal

It is natural to look for partner as we grow up. And to found them, we cannot just pick up from somewhere on the road or buy them one in the market. There are exactly arts of attraction we need to express.

For example, when male peacocks want to attract female, they expand their eye-spotted tail. Elephants flap their ears and keep them wide open. Frogs and crickets sing. Pufferfishes make circle pattern. And bowerbirds build and decorate home to draw their mate.

Differently, human is the only special species on earth. We do not instinctively do the same thing. We have our own unique ways to approach ours or pull them in with our elaborate expressions, both words and actions, and each one does it in different ways. Maybe this is why humans ourselves tend not to be able to understand those secret complex signals somewhat, even though it is from our own species.

It would be a lot easier and time saving if we just go straight and confess what on our mind, yet humans seem to love playing puzzle. We go round and round in a big circle. Sometimes we even express it in the opposite way, and we expect the other side would be aware of it. When it does not go our way, we become frustrated and disappointed. But how can we consider someone to understand what they do not understand? And try to assume the meaning of it by our own thoughts.

However, there is still an accurate way to show our love to get the completely right answer, although it can be positive or negative, is to speak our mind out, and make sure it is the exact words and in a polite tone with respect.

Remember, no one is going to wait for our unpredictable decision or feeling. So, there is no reason to make it months or years while we surely know what we really crave for. Take the step first if we truly worth the person.